GREETINGS and BLESSINGS...
@bj-sickboy
13 years ago
20 posts
updated by @bj-sickboy: 01/13/15 08:52:59PM
@bj-sickboy
13 years ago
20 posts
Knottysleeves said:
Welcome! All that maintenance sounds like a lot of work. The irony is that if you'd just left them alone after the initial backcombing and crocheting, by now (7 months) they would've been tight & locked up enough by themselves to not need all this "cleanup". I'm not against occasional crocheting (I do it myself a few times a year) but wow, every 2 - 3 weeks is overkill, especially since your dreads aren't even mature yet.
Locks in their healthiest state are meant to be a little messy -- loose hairs and loose roots are normal & they happen to all of us no matter how mature your locks are, that's just the reality of dreads. Trying to fight that by crocheting, interlocking and constantly using products is a losing battle, in my opinion. I know that some people just prefer the look of manicured dreads, and there's nothing wrong with that, but if you want that look then you have to accept the risk of cumulative damage. There's really not a lot of in-between solutions, unfortunately.
I think you should stop all the maintenance ASAP and let your dreads & scalp breathe for awhile. Let your dreads settle and mature naturally instead of trying to force it. After a few months you might be surprised how much progress they've made! Then you can decide if you still want to do occasional maintenance and whether it's worth it to you.
@soaring-eagle
13 years ago
29,640 posts
u definately should be doing nothing but seperating thats a lotta dammage u did to them and i bet alot od expende
learn to love the uniqueness they get craziness isnt messiness its beauty its individuality be proud of how they become yours and not so fake looking
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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1
@mia-elizabeth
13 years ago
45 posts
Welcome.
My advice would be to just let them be.
I know you want a manicured look but unfortunately my experience is that natural dreads are not that in any way shape or form.
so im not sure how u can have the best of both worlds.
I am excited to see your progress though, keep us posted on your decisions.
Peace & love,
Mia
@bj-sickboy
13 years ago
20 posts
@bj-sickboy
13 years ago
20 posts
here's the best pics i have of my locs right now
the first one is from a month ago
and the second one is from 4 months ago.
@soaring-eagle
13 years ago
29,640 posts
ok u definately see some gaps around sections and the sections are fairly big for such thin dreads
but you also see a whole lotta fuzziness for a technique thats used to get rid of the fuzziness (but actualy only creates way more)
now 1 thing u will find as u stop abusing them is they will thicken but as u start to seoperate them few months down the lins the sxalp fuzz will fill those gaps and new thin dreads will pop up all over
in a year 1/2 you could have double the numbetr both thick and thin
squeeze those how do they feel kinda a grinding feeling instead of spongy feeling?
i dont see any spots that look in danger of breaking (visualy) but i couldnt see them taking that much damage too much longer
now..take a look at the top of your head see the scalp lines ? the area in the scalp lines is the size those dreads should be riughly when healthy so u can see just how big an area was used to make thin dreadshow many do u have? the size they look u should have over 60 at a guesmaybe 70
but its more like 25 isnt it
they will get better and worse at the same time a few months then start to get better (by that i mjean a few month fuzz out while all te broken hairs pop out then slowly suck back in)
the interlock well that u can only hope for the best on u may get lucky and not have probs
many ppl dont have issues with it but many do its just saa matter of luck
this will be interesting to see how they recover with just how much crochet u actualy did to them
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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1
@soaring-eagle
13 years ago
29,640 posts
let me cirrect myself only see the gaps around the 1 in the front assume theyre around all but hidden by how they hang
but
this is whaat the dread-root ration looks line <----[--]----> the <-------> being the size of the roots or the size a healthy dread should be with that section and [--] being the super compressed crochet dread
ok so to further explain with these -- graphs where you now have
----[--]----><----[--]---->
after growth and seperation you'll get
><-[---]-><><-[---]->< dreads thickening with some looe hairs between which then begin tioo become
[---][--][---]
ofcourse as those seperate new lkoose hairs full gaps
but point is some of those wide roots some of those hairs thst should never have been put into suchj big sections will come out and become dreads where they shouldsa been to begin with hopegully
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My new book Ban The Taboo Vol 1
@bj-sickboy
13 years ago
20 posts