new dread question

I have only had my babies for going on 2 weeks so I know they are supposed to be still sift at this point. I see pics of how some of you tie your dreads back together and I just love the way it looks. Although mine are plenty long enough, they just won't stay tied I'm wondering if this is just because they are babies and are still soft?? I also know it takes them at least a year to mature, so am just going to have to wait for them to stiffen up enough or are there any tricks or tips anyone has that I can try?? Thanks for any advice!! I love this site & use it for all my dready info! Keep rockin guys!
updated by @janeen-nelson: 01/13/15 10:06:36PM

they shouldnt ever be stiff..firmer but not stiff just wrap dreads around drezads and tuck them under and pull tight

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It's kinda sad that I never even thought about wrapping my dreads around each other before I tie them together lol....Will definitely try it! Thank you!

You'll be able to do many awesome hairstyles when your dreads have matured. I'm half way there and already it's improving.Peace