Joining dreads and lots of frizzies - 3 months old

hey guys,

Im loving letting my new dreads do their thing but they are seriously trying to join with others all over the place. I'm separating majority of days but its at the very roots that different sections are overlapping into others.Im finger picking a lot of the hairs that dont belong out but now there are heaps of frizzy loose hairs that are creating baby dreads all over the place. Should i just stop picking the hairs out and let the dreads go out until the matting is long enough so that I can rip it apart?

I think im just creating a worse problem by picking out all of the lose hairs. My hair is dreading super quickly and its awesome but this problem is sending me mad!!

Thanks everyone in advance for any responses!

updated by @tanky-t: 01/13/15 09:59:19PM

yes u only need to seperate when the connected hairs are between the dread bodies not at the scalp

dont pick out hairs just pull dread away from dread

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Haha, I knew I was doing something wrong! Thanks for your reply!