3 1/ months - Loose, fuzzy hairs normal?

Hey guys and gals!

As I have said in previous posts, I have to keep my hair in a tight bun with all sorts of bobby pins for 18 hours per week. I just got a second job so that's even more hours in this bun, along with when I practice yoga. I have noticed that my baby dreads are beginning to look more loose, almost starting to look like "normal" hair again! They are also becoming very fuzzy. I began the dreading process 3 and a half months ago.

I don't mind at all if this is apart of the process, but I was worried if this isn't part of the process and that I'm damaging them?

updated by @meg5: 01/13/15 09:58:57PM

it is part of the process but your not helping things at all

are you 100% sure that a tight buns the only option? and why boby pins dreads are perfect for tying themselves up using nothing but dreads

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Thank you, I do feel better now knowing that it is apart of the process.
I hate having to tie them up all of the time, but my boss is very strict and everyone has their hair up in ponytails/buns (I work in food). If I wear them in a ponytail, would that be a little better?

I could try to not use the bobby pins, but I am worried that my other job (which is in retail) will think it's too sloppy. They told me that I need to keep them VERY neat.
I have tried tying them up with themselves, but they're not strong or long enough yet; they have shrunk a lot.
I understand that this will slow down things, but will this be significant damage? Now thinking about it, I'm definitely going to lay off the bobby pins!

pony tails def better especialy if somewhat loose

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Wonderful! I will definitely try this I hope you know just how thankful I am for your patience and generosity in answering all of my questions, I know I ask a lot. You are truly incredible.