So i decided to go with the TnR and then neglect. I sectioned my whole head (not very great) but will do for now id say about 80 percent of them have come undone from swimming, washing and what not but i am definitly loving the journey so far. Everyday i wake up and think, man i cant wait to c how much they form in the future. I was very picky about my hair in the past espescially who i let cut it but now it just seems right to let it do what ever it wants and have a character of its own that is mine as well. kind of like a trust between my hair and i, knowing im going to love it however it comes out, cause its my own. I know it sounds funny but that just my way of feeling more natural and closer to myself. Just thought id share this little excitement on here peace and happy journey to all !