So I had my second set of dreads for a little over 5 months. I've been battling with depression for years, always getting better then worse then better. Always a ride. I had a huge burst of depression and nothing would help. So I decided to brush out all my hair. I got a hair cut, only about 1 inch taken off and added some layers and still completely unhappy. Almost a month later I've slowly realized my hair wasn't making me depressed any more than anything else. So I'm off to a new start. Set 3. Off to a better journey to be even happier with myself.

So my Husband and I live right outside of a USMC base (he's in the USMC) And I find that going on base or even meeting other females for friendships is awful! I've been here 2 months and I made 2 friends (before I dreaded) and only 1 of them will still hang out with me on a daily basis. I've learned to ignore the up and down looks of people who just don't understand me. But I'm tired of not having any friends to talk to or go out with. I left behind my family and friends and I just want some dread friendly people in my life! The other wives are ferocious and always so against each other which is why I can't seem to find a good decent person to interact with except for 1! We're in the desert, someone just come and be friends with me <3 Hoop loving is a plus! (They don't understand that either)