By Kym2, 2013-07-15
By Kelsey Cliche!, 2013-07-14
I'm pretty terrible at updating, life is pretty busy with grad school, work, and wedding planning!
I started my dreads with twist & rip and some backcombing, then did a little bit more backcombing on a few around the 9 month mark. My long layer is finally starting to knot up. I'm at about 18 1/2 months now.
I just have photos from instagram of my hair, so here they are. The photo of the sides was from last night, the front/back pic was from a few weeks ago!
By Vandreren, 2013-07-13
"Oh with gentle hands he did sway me
Over the flames to strengthen and purify
Oh, with loving words did he dab me
With springs last snow for cleansing me his child"
These are lyrics from the Bathory album, Hammerheart". Which later goes on to proclaim.
"Oh, having it with me
From the first day of my life
always carrying them within me
The powers of Fire and Ice
Now I pass unto thee
My son what was given to me"
Fire and Ice. These are described in our lore of the Eddas to be great powers, extreme poles that come together to create life. This is a theme in the creation myths. That life came from fire and ice. Is this a metaphor or a superstition?
It might be neither. Actually, our ancestors may have had a ton of insight about the energies that created life.
Science can tell us about the rocky surface of the earth. It can tell us that a great heat splintered these miles of rock, which allowed mist to form in the many cracks and crevices that the heat created. When great heat turned to great cold, this mist became ice, breaking apart the rock more and more. This happened over and over again, and on a smaller scale. What did this process create? Soil. Life. Two opposing titanic forces created one of the top life-giving substances in the world.
Was this knowledge literally known by our ancestors? Probably not. What IS known is that the concept of fire and ice was part of their cosmology. I do beleive it was a gods-given insight, or perhaps something understood through divine reflection.
At the core, our people are fire and ice. In constant opposition, yet peaceful when neither force need be used. Frith is the concept of peace in a kindred or communal sense. A sacred place where harmony is between people, gods, and spirits of the earth. A state. This state is crucial to life. It is the state of a pure people, be it pure in love or pure in virtue. Brotherhood, marriage, parenthood, community, and faith. These are all the products of great, life-protecting forces, and therefore products of fire and ice.
This is sacred knowledge, an understanding that in great conflict, great effort and exertion and will, things are created.
This can also coincide with the heathen philosopher Colin Clearys concepts of Will and Openness", which he believes are two states of being that are innate and required to communicate with the gods and the spiritual world. Through openness and suppression of our instincts of will, which naturally tries to posit itself on the world around us, we achieve a state of openness, and this allows sacred reflection.
Through this reflection we are susceptible to the effusion of great spiritual energies around us, some of these being the gods themselves. We take this knowledge, which we have gathered in a great open state, and feed it to our other pole: Will.
The Will within us is then greatly empowered by this knowledge and contact with the divine, and we use it to enrich our lives, the lives of those within our communities, and in many cases the world around us.
Thus we see, through two opposing states. Peace and conflict, will and openness, fire and ice.life is created in many forms.
This is why we are all baptized in fire and ice. Our folk and our gods, empowered to the end by a kind of strength unique and needed in the world
By Mario hernandez, 2013-07-13
is it better to start dreads with shorter hair or longer hair????
By Trina Sandress, 2013-07-13
16yrs going strong. I knew once my hair started locking that I was in it for eternity. For me my dreadlocks mean freedom. I am free to be me and to love me for what comes out naturally. I have faced many confrontations and giggles and snide comments behind my back waiting in line at grocery stores,people shouting out of their windows "You nappy headed nigger" but you know I have become immune to all of their negativity. It bounces right off of my aura because I truly love who I am and know that I only want to be me and not some commercial version of a human being that society expects me to be. I am liberating myself, constantly growing,and becoming more and more confident within as the years go by. I hope you all are enjoying life and staying drama free as much as possible.
By Red Lola, 2013-07-12
So I just joined this site, finally, I began my dread journey about 5 months ago. I have chosen the natural method, which is good for my practice in patience. My partner inspired me to dread my hair. my question today is- can I avoid all the little white ended hairs, which are not attached to my scalp anymore, from being part of my dreads? They really bother me, and I am wondering if I just haven't looked close enough at other people's dreads to notice them or are there methods to keep my dreads free of them.
thanks a ton for any comments and suggestions
By Jaquie Farmer, 2013-07-11
By Alexandro Colon, 2013-07-11
Just wanted people to post pics if they are usually at the beach or just in the ocean - wanna see a dreading difference from people that usually go in the ocean alot , thanks!
By ChildrenAtMidnight, 2013-07-11
Fun things are happening after a month or so of dreading. I'm starting to get the loops and stringy hair and several of my dread babies are starting to form. The bottoms are starting to come loose on most of them however they are still holding their form.
Pretty sure some shrinkage is starting to happen too since several dreads are starting to kink up. It feels awesome.
The only issue I'm seeing is that several of my dreads feel really thin towards the roots. I'm guessing it's because they're just not fully dreaded up near the scalp whereas the rest is fluffy and frizzy, making them feel fuller near the middle and bottom.
I'm really pleased with the progress so far. I honestly didn't think they'd be forming this quickly but I'm 100 percent okay with it.
By Jaquie Farmer, 2013-07-11