Welcome. Wax, at best, prevents locks from ever maturing. It holds your hair down so hat it can't loop and knot. untangled hair never locks.
Wax is also a hydrocarbon, which means that it will NEVER was out in normal soap and water. It needs a detergent to clean it out.
what are you washing with, and how often?
read the dreaducation page the dread wax truth page and the dread wax removal psage
wax is the number 1 cause of dreads being cut its a scam and pure evil in dreads
welcome butt wax is a huge mistake a dread likkiller u must remove the wax
she did back combing, palm rolling and crochet hooking. all the "donts" but they looked really nice. she also put in extensions. lots of work! cheers
welcome just stick with the natural process in a few weeks you will love the progress u made
how did your friend do the ones she did/