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So just recently I decided for sure I'm going to San Diego with only clothes in my bag and on my back...(along with my toothbrush etc...lol) and Just hopping on a plane and going, nothing waiting for me but freedom and whatever I want to do...oh and $200 bucks in my pocket, lol.

I have emptied my apartment...donated 100+ CDs, DVDs and Books to the library...5 Bags of clothes to the clothing drop...and man....

I'M ACTUALLY DOING THIS???!!!

I'm living MY life...the one IIII always wanted, the one IIII always dreamed of?

OMg........I am. *smiles inside*

I grew up in a household where basically your life was already set for you...you were told that you love Jesus, when you got old enough, you got a job to help pay for bills, kicked out at 18 no matter what, then you'd have no choice in sexual orientation and would marry the sex that was "made by god for you", then you'd buy a house, have the babies...have a career, make lots of money, retire and die.

No freedom.
No choice.
No LOVE.

Just... as so, the way they're supposed to be, living the dreams of your mother, father...just as Latin American Conservative Christian as you can imagine....

But I lost my mind trying...literally total mental melt down...and I ended up losing or giving up on all the things I tried to want so bad...cuz I never wanted them...

Gay
Tattooed
Dreadhead

DIFFERENT.
No I didn't fit in...not into MY family not into AMERICA's perfect picture of a family...nowhere...except here *points to heart* and now I see that's all that matters, and it's ok...

To go AGAINST THE GRAIN.
To not SWIM WITH THE REST OF TROUT.
To not WORK WITH THE REST OF THE ANTS.

To be the creator, and not created...
A leader.

I N D E P E N D E N C E

and now MY dreams are coming true...and I don't care HOW crazy they sound!

I love myself....

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Comment by Kid Ayn Gibran on August 27, 2011 at 6:22pm

I had these same plans, but me and the lady friend instead are thinking about Australia for a year after she graduates. We still have plans to get to San Diego...how is it there? I hope all is going well.


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Comment by Panterra Caraway on July 7, 2010 at 10:56pm
SE is correct about Cali. My husbands parents moved to San Diego and were back within a year and they are quite flush. I live about 45 miles from Hollywood and it is very expensive, we scrape by. There have got to be better alternatives for you just starting out. Whatever you do, don't stop dreaming or believing in yourself. Be safe.
Comment by Good Energy on June 1, 2010 at 9:45am
And I bow down to you. That is frickin awesome! Hope to someday myself!

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Comment by Jessica Reyes on May 4, 2010 at 10:31am
funny*** lolol

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Comment by Jessica Reyes on May 4, 2010 at 10:31am
I'm writing to much but, it's funn cuz that was my first choice, ocean beach, but I didn't look into it cuz I figured it was by the ocean and would be too expensive? tell me more...

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Comment by Jessica Reyes on May 4, 2010 at 10:28am
I figure also I want to definitely settle down into one area so I can get my shit together and get to know the area and what not...get comfy cuz going from place to place all over california isn't my plan, when I get off that plane I gotta make my way somewhere and stay there...lay my sleeping bag down and call it home, lol

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Comment by Jessica Reyes on May 4, 2010 at 10:26am
werrrd? I was thinking chula vista, glad to hear some comments like that cuz Ive been doing google searches all over the place to see where's best to start and its like.....eh? lolol
Comment by Hayley Scott on May 3, 2010 at 9:10am
if you're going to san diego, you should go to ocean beach. tons of travelers, one of the best places to go, especially when you're starting out

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Comment by Jessica Reyes on May 3, 2010 at 9:04am
Aw Messinja! lolol *tear*
It's great to know that someone else shares this experience, and yes hope our paths cross <3 much love to you
Comment by Ras caleb on May 2, 2010 at 11:40pm
that great FREEDOM

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