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Blair
@Blair
09/09/12 05:02:09PM
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Curly dreads timeline


Member Journals and Timelines

They look amazing. :)

Blair
@Blair
09/02/12 12:51:17PM
12 posts

American crew tea tree shampoo


Dread Products

I heard that stuff is terrible for any type of hair.

Blair
@Blair
08/30/12 07:28:14AM
12 posts

dreadlocks changing more than your hair


General Talk

Yeah, that would work, I don't want to get too off topic in this thread. Lol.I used to crochet, but stopped because my friends made fun of me. But I'm thinking about starting it again. I've always wanted to learn how to sew. The closest I ever came to sweing was in 7th grade when we made pillows. Lol.
updated by @Blair: 07/14/15 03:49:47AM
Blair
@Blair
08/29/12 09:29:07PM
12 posts

dreadlocks changing more than your hair


General Talk

How exactly would I be boring? And hes not a good role model for the boys, which is another reason I want him gone. He's kind of mean to them, he calls our younger son fat all the time, and he completely ignores our older son. As soon as he walks in the door he's totally focused on me. Or, he'll yell at our 2 year old about having a bink. And when I say something to him about shouting over something stupid he jumps on how I'm a bad parent because I don't discipline the boys (I do gentle discipline, I don't spank them.) My mom is noticing his crap too. A couple months ago she discreetly left a phamphlet on emotional abuse in one of my books. There was one time I called him out on it, and showed him the phamphlet and he flipped out. I've never seen him go crazy like that, I was actually kind of scared.

And sorry if I keep going on, I don't really talk to people much about this, they usually go on about how I'm stupid for getting back with him. Lol.

Blair
@Blair
08/29/12 05:52:17PM
12 posts

dreadlocks changing more than your hair


General Talk

I'm in need of a trip to the library, so ill look for it. Sounds reaally interesting. And he's always accusing me of cheating, he does it so much I'm starting to think he's the one who's cheating. I don't have any proof though. I don't want him in my life at all, but he's the father of my 2 boys, so I'm stuck. He also threatens to take the boys to florida so I'll never see them if we break up. I'm living with my mom with no job (I'm looking for one of course), and I'm not sure how all the custody stuff works out. In a perfect world he'd sign his rights over and disappear. But I know I can't have my way with that one. Haha.
Blair
@Blair
08/29/12 05:00:34PM
12 posts

dreadlocks changing more than your hair


General Talk

That's eactly what he does. When I first brought uop getting dreads he said "you'll get tired of them and hate them. Trust me I know you better than you do. I was right about you piercing and your ears (I stretched them)" and hell say mean things like "I miss your old body, you should start working out". When I try to break up with him he guilts me. Into staying with him by threatning to kill himself. So hopefully this will be the thing that ends us. Its sad that he's so superficial, I never thought someone could be that mean. And that book sounds like it would be interesting, ill try to find something like that at the library. I love psychilogy. :)
Blair
@Blair
08/29/12 09:42:58AM
12 posts

dreadlocks changing more than your hair


General Talk

I've changed so much in the past week since I started my dreads. For as long as I can remember I was never happy with my hair. I hated it short, I hated it long, I hated it when it was down, I hated it when it was up. I was almost constantly brushing it because it was always getting tangled up. I spent 20 minutes every morning trying to flat iron it and fill it with waxy products so it would stay flat. When I finally started my dreading process it was the most freeing thing I've ever done. I never realized I could love this 'nappy mess' on my head as much as I do. After the first time I washed them with the bs deep cleanse my hair felt amazing. I decided that if my hair felt that good without chemicals, sulfates, and perfumes being put into it, then my body would feel great too. I went out and bought organic body wash, lotion, and deodorant. Im also starting to eat better, not just for the weight loss, but because it makes me feel so good. I'm more energetic, and in better moods.

It also made me realize that I didnt need to take any crap from my controlling boyfriend. He hated that I finally stood up for myself and I did something he told me not to do. Sad right? Our relationship will be ending soon, and I'm happy to say I'm not sad about it at all.

So you could say my dreads changed almost everything about me for the better. I feel almost enlightened. Sorry for such a long response. Haha. :)

Blair
@Blair
08/22/12 10:26:26AM
12 posts

Dirty looks and negativity


General Questions

Whenever I see someone giving me an odd look, I just smile and say hi. Sometimes people don't realize that I can see the looks they give me, but it doesn't bother me. I don't live to please everyone.

Blair
@Blair
08/20/12 06:35:07PM
12 posts

I can't stop touching, and other Sillyness 2 weeks in.


General Talk

I love the feeling! I find myself feeling them while I'm doing something. Their so freeing, I just wake up and shake my hair around. I also love all the weird looks i get when I go out, I thought I would hate it, but its actually pretty fun.

Blair
@Blair
08/13/12 08:34:37PM
12 posts

Water Fast


Dreads and Diets

I'm planning on doing a 14 day water/juice fast. Depending on how I'm feeling after the 14 days I may try to go to 30. I want a complete lifestyle change. I'm tired of having cravings for fast food and other junk, that isn't good for me. My family also has a history of heart failure, and obesity. My question is, has anyone else done it? What can I expect (other than hunger)?


updated by @Blair: 01/13/15 09:33:23PM
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