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xxMercy
@xxMercy
06/24/11 03:11:41PM
26 posts

dreads, cops, and court.


Life Issues Facing Dreads

pretty much none!!! i swear my clean cut friends are more off putting than my pierced/tattooed/hippie friends.

soaring eagle said:

dont worry bout it u will get the restraining order yu have the evidence

and reminds them that the average sereal killer looks more like yoir ex then you! almost all are clean cut ppl u would never expect but how many peirced dreaded freaks do u hear about turning canabal and stockpiling body parts under the floorboards?

xxMercy
@xxMercy
06/24/11 02:52:53PM
26 posts

dreads, cops, and court.


Life Issues Facing Dreads

i think the scarf is a good idea, can't really believe i didn't think of it. thanks cora=]

i don't want to have to sue the state SE(but if it comes down to it, i damn will), i don't even want to have a hearing in the first place. i just want them to leave me alone. they say some pretty degrading things. i don't want to wake up to that every morning anymore.

xxMercy
@xxMercy
06/24/11 01:52:39PM
26 posts

dreads, cops, and court.


Life Issues Facing Dreads

so my ex and his new gf have been harassing me via facebook, texting and phone calls. i haven't been with him since the beginning of LAST year. anywho, all last week i went from sheriff's station to sheriff's station to the court house trying to get him to leave me alone. i finally succeeded in filing a temporary restraining order against him. now i have to go to a hearing and present my case.... i'm pretty nervous. he's extremely clean cut compared to me. i'm already going to take out my piercings for that day but idk what to do about my hair. its a fucking mess and the police and court officials aren't exactly known to be supportive of an individual's locking journey. idk if its ok to wear a tam there, if i should just try to put them up or let them be unruly, or if i should just break down and comb them out AGAIN. i love my dreads, but this mofo scares me. i can't risk not having a permanent restraining order, and discrimination is the ONLY way i won't get it, he made his threats perfectly clear and i kept the evidence. i just don't know how to deal with this as i've not had any good experiences with the cops and court this past week. they've talked down to me, stared at me like i was a freak and even insinuated i was lying about the whole thing. any advice is greatly appreciated.
updated by @xxMercy: 01/13/15 09:04:30PM
xxMercy
@xxMercy
06/08/11 12:53:35AM
26 posts

does this sound stupid?


General Talk

its not stupid at all. i started with my whole head but because of work and stuff i combed out most of my hair. i kept seven fat ones though lol. thinking of letting the rest come back naturally=]
xxMercy
@xxMercy
05/16/11 06:52:10PM
26 posts

dreads or no?


Life Issues Facing Dreads

do it!! i regret not dreading in high school when i first started thinking about it. i waited almost 5 years lol. and if people talk shit tell them to shove it, some people just don't understand no matter how hard you try to explain. people talk crap about mine alllllll the tim, can't let it phase you.

listen to SE though!! no crochet or wax!! =]

xxMercy
@xxMercy
05/06/11 09:12:23PM
26 posts

Did you just imply that I don't wash my hair?


General Talk

when most people see my dreads they assume i don't wash my hair. i just say i wash my hair about 3 times a week and if they push the issue i tell them my hair is probably cleaner than theirs because i don't have products in it at all.

it doesn't bug me unless its a family member that says it. most of my family has been excepting but a few have tried to put me on blast.

xxMercy
@xxMercy
05/16/11 02:37:12PM
26 posts

Beads and Your Dreads


Dread Accessories

i leave my beads in most of the time. sometimes i get a hair up my butt and i take them out... i have a lot of wraps and i've been told that you can leave those in, but i've been taking them out and putting new ones in just in case.. the only piece i take out everytime i shower is a metal bell that my little sister gave me to tie into my hair, i havent sealed it with anything yet so i'm kinda scared it will rust if i leave it
xxMercy
@xxMercy
03/17/11 03:02:21PM
26 posts

am i washing too often??


Dread Maintenance

that's what i thought! this dude totally caught me off guard though. and my dreads are pretty new, so yeah theyre kinda frizzy. plus i have a lottttttt of loose hairs.... it kinda looks like a dreaded most of my hair but left a bunch out that just does whatever it wanted.

i was pretty scared when he told me. there's no way i could not wash my hair for a week, i'd get all itchy and itwould just feel wrong.

Rachel Guthrie said:

I have never, ever heard of that before, lol. Hair breaking from washing it? Strange.
I wash mine three times a week and I haven't noticed dryness? Maybe hes mistaken because sometimes newer dreads have that frizzed look that can be mistaken for dryness? o.0
xxMercy
@xxMercy
03/17/11 02:33:10PM
26 posts

am i washing too often??


Dread Maintenance

haha idk, i'vehaven't seen many people with dreads in real life, and never as close up as he was last night. i started thinking that maybe my hair really does look like crap because i only knowhow i should betaking care of themin theory, not in practice
xxMercy
@xxMercy
03/17/11 01:44:36PM
26 posts

am i washing too often??


Dread Maintenance

he was white, and he did have dreads... but his hair looked kinda greasy,and he said he sometimes puts pommade in it or something(i thought you weren't supposed to do that). the only thing that gets put in my hair is a sea salt and aloe spray that i made and even then its only a light spritz. hahaha i've been down the road of using bunches of products in my hair, i used to tease the life out ofitand spray on buttload of hairspray, and i dont want to go there again

thanks SE=] i'm glad to know i'm not doing something stupid lol

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