the only tam that fit me just got ruined
ahh thats horrible man. honestly that just happened to me with one of my tams. hope you find a new one soon =]
the baking soda does make em very soft, so add sea salt to it
it may seem like a backtrack but problyu over te next few days soukld tigten back up
I don't have any experience with the natural method so my credibility on the issue is between none and not enough, but I don't think you did anything WRONG. From what I've seen and heard the natural route is a road of taking 3 steps forward then 2 steps back until they reach a certain level of maturity, and after that its only steps forward.
The only thing i can think of that would help them lock up a tad faster would be a wool hat and maybe some sea water, but Im just speculating.Good luck cool thing
im sure rubbing your head with wool is fine i do it and it does cause it to lock up faster but the locks kinda look odd because your pulling hair from all over your head... i would just say do it like you are scratching your head or in circles