Let's Get Personal
I had long hair down to my waist and was completely and totally unable to manage it, style it, comb it, etc. Dreads it was!
Mine ended up getting a lot loopier after I made this thread. Some of them are starting to mature and lay down now!
I think you are very beautiful. And I second someone's question earlier, are you insecure about having dreads? Or about how yours look?
Personally I never feel insecure about mine. But I was a pretty confident girl before I got them too... I've always worn the same clothes over and over for weeks and gone out in sweatpants all the time and just basically been this freak when it comes to "normal" society so I just don't really give a crap what others think... at the same time I feel really hot and sexy and beautiful being how I am, and kinda like Sussi said, I actually feel sorry for women who feel the need to conform so much to what society decides is 'good looking'. I feel incredibly lucky to be so free, you should too!
sounds like you want a hairstyle that you can have a lot of control over and really dreads are more about having patience and letting go of control. Your vision is very specific and YEARS away(if ever) from being possible. Bleach damages hair severely and causes a lot of breakage. Even if you use a clay bleach I've never sen someone with SUPER long bleached dreads, even after years.
Yeah as others have said theres no way that's mature... you could put a bead over it if it bothers you. But personally I love when they do that... or any other "activity" they do. It makes me go, "THEY'RE ALIVE, ALIVE!"
A lot of people are scared of salvia and out of every drug I know of, more people have told me they have had terrible experiences with it (really terrifying trips).
But I've done it probably 5-6 times and never had a scary experience. It's beyond strange though and not very enjoyable... there isn't a high like with LSD or pot... just very strange feelings and very strange events that occur while in this other realm it takes you to. One time I was transported onto this farm where there was a family and everything was made of leaves. The people, the house, the ground, etc.
Another time, nothing physically changed. I was sitting in my bedroom and thinking that it didn't work for some reason. So I start talking to the other people in the room about how it didn't work...except there were no other people in the room (this didn't seem odd to me at the time). Then another me, dressed differently and with shorter hair comes into the room and starts yelling at me that I "need to go cook dinner NOW"
I was like FINE! All right! (still wondering why I wasn't tripping yet, lol)
It's very odd stuff.
That is interesting because I've heard more than a few people say that before. I've never touched anything but the pure real deal marijuana.
To the OP: So sorry that happened to you. It's disgusting that the powers that be think they can control what we do with OUR bodies like that. I will spend my life supporting legalization. I definitely think it will happen at some point. It might take awhile, but it will happen.
Naked Naturalist said:
thats me i cant smoke weed now because of spice. i smoked for 7 years. and because of one really bad trip on spice everytime i smoke weed it triggers panic attacks. i recently tried smoking weed again after half a year and had a panic attack instantly. i had to go outside and pour water on myself. my advice, stick to weed. spice is just BAD news.
soaring eagle said:
its not at all hard to not smoke weed i smoke like 1 bowl like 3-5 hits..every 3 months on average its easy
that spice crap will be a massive mistake.. ive heard of ppl ending up in mental wards from that and i think 1 member here cant smoke pot now after smoking that crap now she has severe reactions to weed cause she tried fake weed one time only