Repressed Sexuality
General Talk
Hahaha! Nice, I have a friend who is wanting a reduction as well, she rides horses for a living so you can imagine how miserable a large bust would be bounced all day while working! :L
Hahaha exactly!! No one has power or control over anyone or thing but their own bodies, so why do we spend so much of our time attacking others for our own lack of self control?? how is it my fault when someone else can't trust or control their own thoughts?
LOL Wow, that was impressive...for a moment i was actually going "yeah this guy has a serious mental disorder" hahaha! Awesome rant guys.
Yeah ill never understand it. I go to a school thats very much a "hippy" school and its not uncommon to see ladies, or guys for that matter, walking the halls in the nude, headed to the bathroom or showers etc. And no one really questions it...Which I think is awesome. The only comment made by RA's was that it might be best to keep it on the vague side because 1, you dont know someone elses past and what might "trigger" some sort of feelings of past abuse, and 2, you never know when a random adult, parent, worker etc may be in the building rather than the class mates you know and trust.
I for one love my body and I wouldn't have a problem with it being exposed as I dont find that shameful, but at the same time I choose to keep certain things between me and special to me people.
Btw, after I got my nipples pierced for my own personal aesthetic reasoning, I had this insane urge to just show everyone I know how awesome my amazing blinged out nipples are xD that was a first, but seriously, it was bad, like first two months it was all i could think about, sharing the awesomeness that was my nipple rings....haha
But really, i think people who are predators will always be sick individuals regardless, and apart from that i really cant seem to come up with a reason why we are all so ashamed of our bodies as a society and why the human body is such a taboo thing. Its just flesh and shapes just as anything else in life, why are we the only animals who are banned from having our bodies exposed? There certainly are no laws keeping dogs from humping on the neighbors front lawn...Why shouldn't I be able to? I'm prettied damned sure people would rather see ME doing that than the dog...and why does desire to view something appealing make it wrong?
Honestly im surprised there is no law about wearing a bra, but mostly I just dont feel like wearing clothes some days and I find myself being pissed at people who blame ME for their inability to take any responsibility for their own impulse control issues so much so that its MY job to make sure they aren't offended by my nudity when THEY look at ME. Just don't look you idiot. My tits didn't call your name.
Funny, nudity was made "dirty" by the same sickos who got off raping farm stock (ie sheep etc,) yet I dont seem to remember them making sheep or "naked" reared sheep taboo or illegal or scandalous....
Ok done ranting...
I have soft naturally curly hair, it was past my breasts when I started (longer by a few inches probably if I had straightened it). The back of my head is all 100% natural freeform dreads, and the front has some twist and rip dreads.
Once they started really tightening up, they started to shrink a lot. My hair became more than half its length shorter, when the back matured they were a little above my shoulders, but i have had a little growth and also recently brushed some ends out (I like the wispy open ends).
I was pretty alarmed but how much they shrink because I want so badly for them to be long, but I know its a process, and they are growing some. My dreads are just past my shoulder now.