Forum Activity for @rude-bwoy

Question about that Rainbow gathering thing and Volunteer work.

General Talk

So, I am wondering what is that whole gathering thing about? What goes on there, what is the goal or purpose of it etc? Can someone fill me in? So some of those people just continue traveling around? or does everyone go back to normal lives afterwards etc? I am curious because SE had suggested it to me when I was talking about my homeless situation. Which is still a reality I just bought myself some time. Either way, was thinking about trying to check it out, but I am all the way in Ohio :-D.

Ok and about Volunteer work. I was talking to people about this elsewhere, and I am just going to copy and paste my questions/concerns with it, and am wondering if anyone knows anything about it??

Warning: The context of the follow will be off because I was replying back and fourth with someone else. XD

So I was having an idea.

Anyone know about volunteering out of the country? I mean most places seem like they are just trying to sell you a vacation.

Also, would it be possible to start some kind of non-profit organization like that? Ran off of charity or something to go do work in other countries where people could volunteer for free?

I wouldn't really feel right with going and forcing any specific religion down anyones throats.

As spiritual/religious as I am, I could never support any church based movement, ESPECIALLY not Catholic, or Christian which is my foundation. But the absolute embodiment of evil in today's society as far as I am concerned.

& To Noir, obv. Which is why I disliked most of the options I saw on google, They make it seem like your paying for a vacation and will be spending some of your time teaching people english.

I'm not really interested in that, I could just as easily fly to freaking India and live there or something.

The thing is, I know this might sound dumb or what ever. But I love hard work. My only issue is I hate working for uncle Sam, doing nothing positive for anyone. I can't stand American society, or its version of slavery. Working your life away for barely enough to scrape by.

I hate sitting around living a meaningless life. The only job I have ever held that I liked I was surrounded by foreign people, not "African Americans." Or "Mexican Americans." Or "Asian Americans" but real people from other cultures. Who barely spoke english. And I loved learning to communicate with these people, teaching them to do their jobs, I loved what they were about they way they treat each other, and their passion for love and life in general.

That was probably the only time during my life I have felt satisfied, managing a warehouse full of under-appreciated, and underpaid immigrants from all over the world. Helping take care of those people and make sure they were getting fair treatment helping them etc. Other then my years as a stay at home dad, which were also amazingly satisfying.

I just don't feel like I am enjoying life, or doing anything productive when I am living in this american society working 9-5 at a job I hate, that doesn't really help anyone.

I know most of you are younger then me, and were born to love this meaningless society. So this might be hard for someone to understand. But It just feels like a worthless spiritually restircting life.

No, I don't want to go volunteer to live in a beach house in freaking Cancoon and go around trash picking occasionally on the weekends.

My idea situation would be like HARD work. Building shacks/houses in a place that has no housing. And having to live in one of them myself, as a part of the community. I don't want a paycheck, I don't want luxury. I just want a service job, to serve and help people, to grow and experience the world. To see other peoples hardships and make an impact on the planet.

I don't know how to explain it all...But if you have ever experienced the cultures outside of America, or even the hidden cultures inside of America, the Native Americans that still practice their beliefs, etc. Its just so much more beautiful and filling, then sitting around here doing nothing other then getting old...Occasionally getting money.

The thing is, money holds absolutely no value in my life aside from survival. I don't want money, I don't need money, or feel attached to money...Lol...And that is all our society cares about...Name me one person you know who does something else with their life besides see how much money they can make, or out do their neighbor by buying a better car etc? Its absolutely sickening and pathetic.

"I'm soul searchin, I'm soul hurtin.
What happens when money don't make you happy, wish that on no person."


I dunno how good I was at getting my message across in this post. Its still early and I haven't even drank my coffee yet. But I would like to do something meaningful with my life.

In America, if you do become prosperous, its just at the expense of another human suffering. For every person making $100,000 a year, there are 10 people who can't get a job by any means.

updated by @rude-bwoy: 01/13/15 10:02:18PM

How can I tell if my dreads are healthy?

Introduce Yourself

"But I have this underlying fear that they just aren't where they should be."

Ok I wont lie, I chuckled when I read this. They shouldn't "be" anywhere, there is no book that says how much growth or progress you should have at any point. There are no rules or pre-determined laws you need to follow or measure up to.

They are exactly where they should be, wherever they want to be. The only way your dreads are not going to be where they should be, is if you are doing something that is having negative effects and you are hindering your progress or moving in the wrong direction.

Other then that, be happy with however they are, they are doing what they want to. And that is what they are supposed to do :-D.

I still don't even have a lot of dreads but I started from like 1/4 inch hair and its been over a year. No worries no forcing it. =D I told myself even if it didn't dread at all ever I'd just rock it however it decided to be...I think that mind state allows me to be happy with anything, progress, or no progress.

TLDR: There is no bar or standard to live up to...Whatever you have going on is perfect so long as you let it go. :-D

desperate sitiation

General Talk

If I would have known this was going on. I would have sent you $10 when I spent my last $25 on dread shampoo.

If I come across anything I will do what I can :-D

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk

Ok my post came out blank, and I wrote and edit that it didn't accept, and now time ran out so I can't edit it. Stupid mechanic, but what ever XD.

"Set in those ways, with those views."

In what ways, in what view? The way of nature? The views of Nature? Man + Woman = Child.

I don't want to turn this in to a gay bashing thread, but I'm not set in any ways or specific views, my view on life are subject to change daily based on the things I see or experience.

I am not willing to accept "Gay" as a normality, this is true. But I am willing to accept gay people as normal, and treat them as normal people.

If you are gay, ok I still love you, I just hate the sickness. Same as someone addicted to crack, I love the individual, but hate the sickness.

Gay people, or their supporters, are not willing to accept any view that could be marginally against gayness. They are not willing to find common ground to stand on, and are not willing to compromise at all.

Walking away could be an acceptance of each others a opinion.

Maybe they realized I don't hate gay people in general, so they lost the will to debate? Its real easy to debate with someone when you get to call them all kinds of names, and act like they are shallow and unwilling to learn. You can just say they are "Set in their ways!"

Maybe it was to hard to come up with something that can argue with the laws of nature, Woman + Man = Babies. Man + Man = extinction, Woman + Woman = extinction, perhaps if one day Men are able to carry children, or woman can get each other pregnant, my views will lean towards accepting this as a normal and ok thing.

Maybe, they are to shallow and "Set in their ways." to continue a discussion with valid points, or perhaps this created a situation where they have no facts or evidence to bring to the table?

I 100% accept the fact that my typical way of speaking is rude and offensive.

I 100% accept Gay people, I am willing to treat them as normal people, and to view them as my equal, Its not something I have to force, and to be honest I'm not even interested in rather your gay or straight. Its not one of the things that cross my mind when I meet/interact with people.

I will by no means, accept "Gayness" to be considered a happy and healthy state of mind. Its counter-productive to the human race, and against any religion I have ever took the time to look in to. There is enough FACTUAL evidence to tell me this is not the natural working order of the brain.

Its the same as being color blind. I'm not going to hate you for calling red green and green red. But I am aware this is not a good thing.

Perhaps I'm not the one who is to shallow minded. I am open to new views and opinions, that is why I am able to accept gay people today. I was raised in a household to hate that kind of person.

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk



Jimmy DC said:

Well walking away is not the best way to deal with it. The guy has his views/opinions and he backs them up with valid premises which makes his conclusions sound arguments, but they can be argued against, there's a lot of room to argue/prove him wrong. But saying 'those views' are basically too close minded(at least that's what I understand) to keep going then there's nothing to do. Idk I feel like its kinda lazy from the other side just to walk away because somebody has a different opinion, that's what a discussion is for, to argue different sides and to make the other side understand/ respect your side of the argument

Athena G said:

Not settled, but once someone has decided to have that sort of outlook on things, there is no use in furthering the discussion. Nothing can be gained, just more arguing. So it's better to walk away rather than keep throwing flames. When someone is truly set in those ways, with those views, nothing can be said to sway them.

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk

That's cool =D.

Loving someone doesn't have to mean having a sexual relationship with them. Love has nothing to do with sex, you can love many people. You can't breed with them and continue on with humanity. =/ Love has nothing to do with being gay...Unless your going to sit here and tell me gays only have relationships with people they are in love with?? And then ultimately you want me to believe the same about straight people as well? Lets not hide behind the illusion that love was even a factor when one was choosing their sexual orientation, unless of course you've been with the same person your entire life before you ever thought of what sex was.

And no I didn't say woman are under me, I'm simply saying what are you trying to imply by saying I was being sexist? What harsh view was I trying to apply towards woman in my initial statement?? This is what I mean by trying to find sexism somewhere it isn't there. Those are the type of people who you need to be ranting and raving about sexism to. Not me for saying woman have some over the top motherly instinct to try to care for everything.

"In god we trust." Please, begin to explain to me how this is "My religion." and if you could continue, then I would like you to point out even further which religion you thik your referring to when you use the word "God" considering that is a pretty broad word. It doesn't say "In Allah we trust." or in "Jesus we trust." it says in God, and this government if you didn't notice is trying to bar so much as even the public display of a cross, let alone any mention of the word "God" any longer being apart of that.

"So from my post you decided what? I hate woman? I think less of woman? Lets be serious, because they think they can care for every thing in the world, and let their motherly instinct often cause more pain then good, I must hate woman and hope they stay under me forever right?"

Let me just point this out again real quick. Me questioning your logic, and you taking this out of context as if I'm stating your under me now. There is no under and over with men and woman, we both play separate roles, sure they can overlap at times. But our nature is not the same. Woman - Loving/Caring/Motherly/So on and so fourth. Men - Combatitive/Defensive/Possessive.

Am I the type of person who doesn't want to see woman on the front lines of our military? MAYBE, but not because I don't think they are capable of holding their own, but simply because they play a more vital role in our reproduction. If we came from the same small tribe, the men go to war. Because if only 1 comes back, he can still repopulate. If only 1 woman comes back? Things get a little more complex.

What I was saying, was don't drive me in to this corner of thinking woman are less then equal to me, just because I pointed out they are eager to take someone/something under their wing. Often to eager. This isn't even a negative quality, so why try to make me out to be the guy who thinks woman are below men.

Can woman compete with men at everything? Nope...

Can men compete with woman at everything? Nope...

We are not made to accel at the same things, we are meant to compliment each other. That's just the way it is. If this makes me some kind of 'sexist pig', so be it?

Again I say, your combating me over being sexist for saying "Of course she is a woman so she would get another animal." Yeah, like I said. Your going on a sexist rant over me calling woman nurturing.

Where the sexist rants should be used = when someone actually is talking down to woman, or feels superior to you based on their sex. Aka. Sexist.

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk

Speaking as if woman are like what? Unable to not take in stray animals, or find new animals to take in regardless of rather or not they can stick with it long term? Over extending them self trying to care for something they dont have the means to take care of.

I mean, what did I REALLY say that would offend woman that much? Nothing really right? Your just one of those people who are trying to hard to look for sexism etc.

Here is a fun fact, most stereotypes are there for a good reason. Because when doing a vast generalization of someone/something/a race/ a group of people, they tend to be ->True<- In a lot of cases.

99% of woman can't turn down helping an animal in need. To be honest I really don't care that your upset or took offense to me saying "Of course being a woman she thinks its a good idea to take in another animal." The rest was directed at her personally.

If you can't accept the fact that groups of like minded people often share the same tendencies, well that is not really my problem now is it? I don't think I've seen even 1 instance where a blind woman screams sexist and it actually is a good time to pull that card. Its like you find the most meaningless unimportant situations to start screaming about sexism.

So from my post you decided what? I hate woman? I think less of woman? Lets be serious, because they think they can care for every thing in the world, and let their motherly instinct often cause more pain then good, I must hate woman and hope they stay under me forever right?

Yeah whatever, your just over sensitive and your looking for a reason to pity yourself or say you were being attacked in some way. Pro-tip. This is what the majority of woman do who say sexism. <-Yup that is a generalization. If it doesn't fit you, power to you, it still fits the majority of the other ones. =D

Even if you break it down to race, go for it. A lot of racial stereotypes ARE TRUE. That doesn't mean you have to hate and entire race of people because you don't agree with one of them, and it doesn't stop you from giving people a chance to prove that wrong.

As far as the whole gay thing. Yeah I use gay, I use faggot etc. as a deragatory term. And I will continue to do so my entire life. I always have, I always will. And to be honest, I generally have more "Hate" towards the person I am using that term against then I do with actual gay people.

I don't like gay people specifically, but I don't hate them just because they are mentally retarded. Its just a form of mental retardation, and to be fair...I feel really uncomfortable around retarded people, even old people if you can't think clearly for yourself I do have a slight phobia of being around you. Obviously gay people are able to live/survive in today's world and can self sustain so I am more comfortable around them then a normal retard.

But this whole over sensitive gay rights movement makes me sick. The way these gay people corrupt and persuade children in to thinking they are gay before they are even old enough to be thinking about sexual preference...

Fact - If everyone woke up gay tom. That would be the end of humanity as we know it, no more babies, no more human race. Its really that simple, and that is how I look at it.

I don't care what word you use to insult someone, "Gay, Stupid, Ugly, Bad, Fat, Skinny, Funny, Dumb, Retarded." its all the same. Excuse me for not being over sensitive towards gays, if you want to sit here and tell me you don't insult, or have never insulted anyone. Go for it...

If you want to sit here and tell me, dogs don't smell each others ass, or most men don't eat pizza. Go for it, your lying to me and your lying to yourself. Nothing I did or said here was any more extreme then what we do or say on the average day.

If your all wrapped up in this Anti-God/Lets turn the babies gay movement. Good for you, Personally I want nothing to do with that. And I'm not going to change my actions or the way I live to support or make it easier for a group of people who run around waving a cardinal sin in every ones face as if it's some special power they were born with.

About the situation - Dog ended up getting Adopted after 2 days of being at the pound. =D Hopefully someone is treating him well.

About the rest of it - I'm not a Fairy, I don't live among Unicorns and Rainbows. Shit happens in life that i don't agree with, and I am 100% willing to speak my mind about it.

I think its REALLY suspect how this homosexuality fad is taking off across the world or more specifically America...When you look at the media, when you look at ANYTHING they are basically driving homosexuality down our childrens throats. Hell, you can find 12 or 13 year old KIDS who swear up and down they are gay and life is going to be so hard for them. WHO THE FUCK HAS A 12 YEAR OLD KID THAT IS THINKING ABOUT SEX OR SEXUAL PREFERENCE?? MAYBE IF THE GAY PEOPLE STFU ABOUT THE SHIT, LET IT BE A NATURAL THING, STOP TURNING IT INTO A PROBLEM, STOP PUBLICIZING IT. Your not even giving the kids a fair chance, your just driving sex down their throat from the second they open their eyes.

And you know what? Big Bother Babylon America loves it. Anything he can do to control the population, anything he can do to get money out of people, Anything he can do to make acts forbidden in the bible a part of peoples daily lives...And the blind will follow.

TLDR: I don't mind gay people, But I absolutely hate and disagree with ANY gay rights movements or activism.

I don't hate woman, and I'm not looking down on woman for taking in animals they can't care for...

A lot of stereotypes are true. I'm not going to sugar coat everything just because your to spaced out to hear reality.

-If there were no problems in the world, no one would be talking about them!- I'd rather wake up tom. and the mental defect of being gay is rid from then world, that would make me a lot more happy then waking up tom. and everyone just magically accepted gay people.

If Jesus/Jehova/Buddah/Whatever god you believe in comes to save the people of earth, guess what? He is going to HEAL the people of sickness, and being GAY is one of those sicknesses, its a mental defect, wrong from both scientific and religious stand points...When the time of healing comes, this plague will pass, so why should I waste my time sugar coating these peoples issue's?? Its a mental defect...Its that simple....

Amanda Clouse said:

If he said instead, "and of course she's black so blah blah...", it wouldn't be acceptable. Even though he is angry, there would be NO excuse for racism. Well, I feel the same goes for sexism. I would never make a generalization about men, even when mad, because I don't think that way. Excusing it because he is peeved at his sister is not a valid and acceptable excuse in my opinion.

Speaking as if all women are like that was an unnecessary inclusion in his post and the point, I am assuming, he is trying to get across (I did stop reading after the sexist sentence).

He has the freedom to feel however he wants about women, but when posting ignorant remarks like that, he should expect backlash from people who are bothered by said ignorance.

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk

That was deep =D. And yeah humans think that we run the planet/universe. It saddens me when I see someone I know is better then that, and able to think things through the right way, acting like a moron.

>:O I always tell people we should be living with nature, going with the flow. Rather then battling against it to live how we think is cool. I honestly don't think things like cars should exist, lol. I wish I was alive back in mid evil times.

NaturalDreads01 said:

Maann.. You aren't letting these things affect you too much, you are just realizing they aren't affecting others as much as they should! Man, the last time I noticed I killed a bug(which, I killed on accident) I felt such a deep sorrow. (I know that sounds extreme, but it is what it is lol) People just don't have any damn respect for other living things anymore. They think that just because they are humans they can dictate what lives and what dies, because somehow they got the status of being above the rest of nature. It's screwed up. Even carnivores don't kill just to kill, unless they have some type of chemical imbalance.. They kill whatever they need for their meal, and after that, another animal could walk right by the carnivore and they won't even look twice, unless the other animal is trying to eat its catch/meal or the carnivore feels threatened. These people that are trying to kill a dog for defending it self just shows you how attached they are to "themselves". Too busy trying to put on a show, because they are scared of who they truly are. It's this attitude that will have a man to never know true self love, so he continues to project hate, for this is what he ultimately has for himself.

updated by @rude-bwoy: 07/22/15 05:54:06AM

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk

Well, thanks for the replies. And I'm not going to let the situation tear me down I mean its noteven my dog but still...>:O

This fool is going to bring him to the pound tommorrow now. So the dog should be on his way to hopefully finding a place to be appreciated.

Still doesn't change the situation or how things went. But I was already aware of how shallow certain parties involved are, so I wasn't surprised so much as outraged.especially when they had walked outside after the dog with a shot gun and had the nerve to say something along the lines of "Lord Forgive Me."

Its like c'mon bruh. You are asking forgiveness for something you know is wrong that you haven'teven done yet. Lol Instead the "Lord jammed this fools shotgun and now it doesn't work at all."

Heh, funny how things work.

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...

General Talk

& I don't think any sane person would be able to read this now that I look at how long it was...

...Glancing over itI think I need to work on not instantly going somewhat Berserk in these situations. That only makes worse situations...-.-;;