Heavy Heart :(
Life Issues Facing Dreads
My feelings are hurt so bad today. I started my dread journey last week. Okay, my hair is a little frizzy and all over the place but frankly I just don't care. I'm doing this journey to let go of vanity. I keep my hair nice and neat of course for my job and for my husband. BUT the thing is that my husband disagrees with my journey. I don't think he supports me one bit. He is stereotyping. Oh my gosh this hurts my feelings so badly, but oh well, I have not combed my hair still. For instance this morning while getting ready I made a comment about our puppy needing a bath because of fleas and he said you're going to get fleas in your hair if you don't brush it out or something like that. Also this morning he came home from night shift and I was getting out of the shower, he saw my hair wrapped up in a towel and he dramatically , shockingly said "You WASHED your hair?" I was like yeah of course. He has been saying man comments since I TnR my hair but I have been ignoring them until this morning. I have showed him pictures of nicely done dreads on the hottest women I could find online to show him it can be done and still be sexy. I tried to explain to him that I just don't want to worry or have to do my hair everyday anymore. I just want to let it be...anyways I don't know what to do. None of my friends have dreads so they won't understand the ridicule. I just wanted to vent on here and maybe get some good advice to help lift my spirits. Thanks guys for listening.
updated by @brandy: 01/13/15 09:47:00PM