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Sarahface
@sarah16
04/14/14 12:41:01PM
108 posts

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...


General Talk

I really hate conflict and usually try to avoid such things, but your post just really made me frustrated. I felt bad for you up until this point, because I understood you were angry and maybe you said things in a way that wasn't meant to be taken, but this post just confirmed that you meant every bit of it, plus more.

"One of those people trying hard to look at sexism"? You really don't have to look for it in your last post. Really. You're implying that all women are a certain way, which is ignorant, and I don't care how you try to justify it with "statistics". And I think its hilarious you're trying to use statistics based on what your personal OPINION is. Because somehow that's supposed to make it any less sexist...?

"I don't think I've seen even 1 instance where a blind woman screams sexist and it actually is a good time to pull that card" ...based on what your opinion on "sexist" is, I would assume not.

"So from my post you decided what? I hate woman? I think less of woman? Lets be serious, because they think they can care for every thing in the world, and let their motherly instinct often cause more pain then good, I must hate woman and hope they stay under me forever right?" STAY UNDER YOU FOREVER? Not to outshine all the other train wrecks in this post, but that last statement was just outright awful. So what is a sexist? Someone who thinks women are beneath them? That women shouldn't be taken seriously? Seems like you already think women are beneath you, because CLEARLY, by what you said, maybe someday we could hope to not "be under you" anymore.

"And you know what? Big Bother Babylon America loves it. Anything he can do to control the population, anything he can do to get money out of people, Anything he can do to make acts forbidden in the bible a part of peoples daily lives...And the blind will follow." Speaking of shoving things down throats, I'm not an Anti-Christian. I respect all cultures and religions. But when it comes to government "shoving things down throats", you forgot to mention how religion is one of those things. But I guess its okay for the government to force children to say "under God" in the pledge of allegiance and have "in God we trust" on our currency, among many other things, since it is your religion. But if its sexual freedom, it's a bad thing. Makes sense, except not really.

"If Jesus/Jehova/Buddah/Whatever god you believe in comes to save the people of earth, guess what? He is going to HEAL the people of sickness, and being GAY is one of those sicknesses, its a mental defect, wrong from both scientific and religious stand points...When the time of healing comes, this plague will pass, so why should I waste my time sugar coating these peoples issue's?? Its a mental defect...Its that simple." Well hopefully he will heal the mental defects that truly matter, like ignorance and hate. Because, personally, I don't think it's SICK for people to love one another, whether you're a man or a woman. Religion has caused a lot of war and murder. I have never heard of love doing those things.

I could go on and on about this post. But I'll just leave it at that.


Rude Bwoy said:

Speaking as if woman are like what? Unable to not take in stray animals, or find new animals to take in regardless of rather or not they can stick with it long term? Over extending them self trying to care for something they dont have the means to take care of.

I mean, what did I REALLY say that would offend woman that much? Nothing really right? Your just one of those people who are trying to hard to look for sexism etc.

Here is a fun fact, most stereotypes are there for a good reason. Because when doing a vast generalization of someone/something/a race/ a group of people, they tend to be ->True<- In a lot of cases.

99% of woman can't turn down helping an animal in need. To be honest I really don't care that your upset or took offense to me saying "Of course being a woman she thinks its a good idea to take in another animal." The rest was directed at her personally.

If you can't accept the fact that groups of like minded people often share the same tendencies, well that is not really my problem now is it? I don't think I've seen even 1 instance where a blind woman screams sexist and it actually is a good time to pull that card. Its like you find the most meaningless unimportant situations to start screaming about sexism.

So from my post you decided what? I hate woman? I think less of woman? Lets be serious, because they think they can care for every thing in the world, and let their motherly instinct often cause more pain then good, I must hate woman and hope they stay under me forever right?

Yeah whatever, your just over sensitive and your looking for a reason to pity yourself or say you were being attacked in some way. Pro-tip. This is what the majority of woman do who say sexism. <-Yup that is a generalization. If it doesn't fit you, power to you, it still fits the majority of the other ones. =D

Even if you break it down to race, go for it. A lot of racial stereotypes ARE TRUE. That doesn't mean you have to hate and entire race of people because you don't agree with one of them, and it doesn't stop you from giving people a chance to prove that wrong.

As far as the whole gay thing. Yeah I use gay, I use faggot etc. as a deragatory term. And I will continue to do so my entire life. I always have, I always will. And to be honest, I generally have more "Hate" towards the person I am using that term against then I do with actual gay people.

I don't like gay people specifically, but I don't hate them just because they are mentally retarded. Its just a form of mental retardation, and to be fair...I feel really uncomfortable around retarded people, even old people if you can't think clearly for yourself I do have a slight phobia of being around you. Obviously gay people are able to live/survive in today's world and can self sustain so I am more comfortable around them then a normal retard.

But this whole over sensitive gay rights movement makes me sick. The way these gay people corrupt and persuade children in to thinking they are gay before they are even old enough to be thinking about sexual preference...

Fact - If everyone woke up gay tom. That would be the end of humanity as we know it, no more babies, no more human race. Its really that simple, and that is how I look at it.

I don't care what word you use to insult someone, "Gay, Stupid, Ugly, Bad, Fat, Skinny, Funny, Dumb, Retarded." its all the same. Excuse me for not being over sensitive towards gays, if you want to sit here and tell me you don't insult, or have never insulted anyone. Go for it...

If you want to sit here and tell me, dogs don't smell each others ass, or most men don't eat pizza. Go for it, your lying to me and your lying to yourself. Nothing I did or said here was any more extreme then what we do or say on the average day.

If your all wrapped up in this Anti-God/Lets turn the babies gay movement. Good for you, Personally I want nothing to do with that. And I'm not going to change my actions or the way I live to support or make it easier for a group of people who run around waving a cardinal sin in every ones face as if it's some special power they were born with.

About the situation - Dog ended up getting Adopted after 2 days of being at the pound. =D Hopefully someone is treating him well.

About the rest of it - I'm not a Fairy, I don't live among Unicorns and Rainbows. Shit happens in life that i don't agree with, and I am 100% willing to speak my mind about it.

I think its REALLY suspect how this homosexuality fad is taking off across the world or more specifically America...When you look at the media, when you look at ANYTHING they are basically driving homosexuality down our childrens throats. Hell, you can find 12 or 13 year old KIDS who swear up and down they are gay and life is going to be so hard for them. WHO THE FUCK HAS A 12 YEAR OLD KID THAT IS THINKING ABOUT SEX OR SEXUAL PREFERENCE?? MAYBE IF THE GAY PEOPLE STFU ABOUT THE SHIT, LET IT BE A NATURAL THING, STOP TURNING IT INTO A PROBLEM, STOP PUBLICIZING IT. Your not even giving the kids a fair chance, your just driving sex down their throat from the second they open their eyes.

And you know what? Big Bother Babylon America loves it. Anything he can do to control the population, anything he can do to get money out of people, Anything he can do to make acts forbidden in the bible a part of peoples daily lives...And the blind will follow.

TLDR: I don't mind gay people, But I absolutely hate and disagree with ANY gay rights movements or activism.

I don't hate woman, and I'm not looking down on woman for taking in animals they can't care for...

A lot of stereotypes are true. I'm not going to sugar coat everything just because your to spaced out to hear reality.

-If there were no problems in the world, no one would be talking about them!- I'd rather wake up tom. and the mental defect of being gay is rid from then world, that would make me a lot more happy then waking up tom. and everyone just magically accepted gay people.

If Jesus/Jehova/Buddah/Whatever god you believe in comes to save the people of earth, guess what? He is going to HEAL the people of sickness, and being GAY is one of those sicknesses, its a mental defect, wrong from both scientific and religious stand points...When the time of healing comes, this plague will pass, so why should I waste my time sugar coating these peoples issue's?? Its a mental defect...Its that simple....

Amanda Clouse said:

If he said instead, "and of course she's black so blah blah...", it wouldn't be acceptable. Even though he is angry, there would be NO excuse for racism. Well, I feel the same goes for sexism. I would never make a generalization about men, even when mad, because I don't think that way. Excusing it because he is peeved at his sister is not a valid and acceptable excuse in my opinion.

Speaking as if all women are like that was an unnecessary inclusion in his post and the point, I am assuming, he is trying to get across (I did stop reading after the sexist sentence).

He has the freedom to feel however he wants about women, but when posting ignorant remarks like that, he should expect backlash from people who are bothered by said ignorance.

Sarahface
@sarah16
04/13/14 08:38:32PM
108 posts

Off topic rant. Need to vent...I swear I got the heart of Buddah and Dracula combined...


General Talk

" Of course, she is a woman so she thought it would be a good idea to get another dog to raise, and eventually discard like unwanted trash."

Yeah, Amanda, I agree with you. Rude Bwoy, I understand you're frustrated and you have a valid reason to be upset, but there was absolutely no reason to put a sexist comment like that in your rant.


Amanda Clouse said:

I couldn't read anything after you said, "Of course she is a woman so..."! I'm not interested in reading something by a sexist.

Sarahface
@sarah16
02/12/14 05:08:34PM
108 posts

1.5 YEAR


Introduce Yourself

I love your music!! <3

Sarahface
@sarah16
02/22/14 01:44:33AM
108 posts

crochet dreads discussion and pictures


Dreading Methods

I just wanted to show this image my friend posted on FB of his crochet hook after he used it on his dreads. D: He's awesome though, I'm not pushing any ideas onto him about maintenance because its none of my business and I understand some people just prefer the crochet look. I just thought this image would be good in this thread to those who are opposed to the crochet and agree that it can damage your dreads. It boosted my pro-natural feeling of dreadiness!


updated by @sarah16: 02/05/15 10:12:49AM
Sarahface
@sarah16
02/06/14 11:13:23PM
108 posts

One step closer to site upgrade


Introduce Yourself

I vote to wait :) I think it'd be cooler to have everything available at once than one at a time.

Stay warm, SE!

Sarahface
@sarah16
02/04/14 03:36:07PM
108 posts

discouraging huge lumps


General Questions

I think it looks awesome :) And I believe that it will straighten out over time, it looks like your dread is just trying to pull in the rest of your loose hair at the bottom. Try looking at it differently, don't be discouraged. Your locks are beautiful and its amazing what your hair can do when given patience. Maybe trying to slip a peyote sleeve over one can help you feel better, and it might even smooth that lump out some. Good luck!

Sarahface
@sarah16
01/15/14 01:29:35PM
108 posts

Newcomer to dreads and dreadlockssite


Introduce Yourself

Hai! Welcome to the site and best of luck to you on your journey!

Well I started out T&R, but they fell out and I went natural afterwards. I could when they started to section by turning my head sideways and seeing how, instead of a curtain of hair, small sections would more or less stick together. Also, if you gently grabbed the tip of a piece of hair and lifted it up, extra hair that was "sticking" to it would come with it.

Baby dreads, for me, was when I would notice the clumps of hair getting a bump or a loop. At that point you can kind of feel up the section of hair and tell where the dread is starting to really form. The tangles are firmer and, if you weren't trying to dread your hair, you would have an extremely hard time brushing that knot out!

And as they mature you notice that the majority of section of hair is now a firm clump, and really fun to squish with your hands. :D

Sarahface
@sarah16
03/15/14 11:30:11PM
108 posts

Giving dreading another shot.


Dread Maintenance

Not everyone's hair knots at the same pace. Some take weeks, some take even a year! You have to be patient. I believe everyone's hair is capable of dreading, it's natural. I hope you stick it through, I understand how it can be discouraging to not see any progress. I T&R'd my hair at first and they ended up all falling out, setting me back at practically day 1 again. But I encourage you to wait it out, it's worth it. Growing them changes you in the best ways, as a person.

Look for example at some of the timelines on here. Some people practically grow dreadlocks overnight. Some takes years before you can even see them as "dreadlocks". Anyway, good luck. ^_^

Sarahface
@sarah16
11/18/13 05:58:06AM
108 posts

will beads help with my crazy lumps?


General Questions

I know it's frowned upon by many on the site, but if they really bother you try palm rolling after you get out of the shower. Don't do it often, just while they are wet. And focus mainly on the section with the bumpy part. I tried this on one that was at the back of my head that would just stick out a little too noticeably for my job and it started to round out pretty well. :)

Sarahface
@sarah16
11/16/13 02:33:53PM
108 posts

T&R help


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