Hi Joey, I also did the mistake of not using ACV with every wash in my beginning months, and also dried out/fried out my hair. This is what I did and it took about 3 months to reverse the damage, now my hair is soft again, back to pre-dread days.
Get yourself a spray bottle and add in water, (don't use hard water if that is what you have at home, use bottled water instead). I added the following essential oils to the water tea tree, rosemary, lavender, & peppermint. For a regular sized water bottle, I added about 10 drops of each, but used a capful of tea tree with my first mixture just to get me started. Shake the spray bottle well before each use to mix up the oils. No need to spray your scalp, just spray all the dried out hair. I sprayed about 3 times a day in the beginning. It took about a month to really notice the difference, but it works fabulously. You can use any essential oils you have, those were the ones I wanted, but I do recommend the tea tree because it keeps bugs away, like lice...yuck.... Oh yeah, I sprayed on to wet hair, spray underneath, all over, just not the scalp unless it feels itchy or dry to you, then give it relief and spray it. Your hair WILL get soft again, just do this and give it time. Use the ACV always if you use the BS wash. I swear by this, as I did the same mistake and was able to correct., The thing that sucks is that is takes time to notice the dry damage happening from no ACV, so we did not realize our mistake soon enough...but no worries, help is right here on this post.....Peace