with any method except natural its typical to freak out constantly over every lil unexpected change in your baby dreads, it starts with oh my god they are getting looser not tighter then progresses to oh my god i got my dreads wet then theres a loose hair or a loop or a bump or a bend oh my god what should i do?then you rush off to the internet and start posting ..ive had dreads for 3 while weeks and they aremnt the way i wanted them helllpor..ive had dreads a month now whens it ok to wash them..over and over the answer ya get is..relax, give them time..dreads will do what they do without you needing to fuss over them..then the next day..maybe 2 your back at the computer with a whole new set of questions..so how do you break that cycle?get rid of all your mirrors ..your calanderes too..forget all about your hair about how much time has passeddont try to dread...try to live without the need to fuss with your hair first..dreads arent a look but a lifestyle..so stop thinking how u want to look instead start living how you want to livethe 1st day you get "nice dreads" on the street thats the day ya should allow yourself a peek in a mirrorofcourse feeling instread of looking is ok feeling u can check to make sure sections arent growing together...and that is all the info u need to get great dreadsif you wait to check on progress till others point out the great progress you will be fascinated not frustrated by the proccess
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updated by @soaring-eagle: 09/26/20 06:41:47PM