What Do you do?!?!

Okay, well It may just be me, but I'm sure i'm not the only one this happens to. I guess everyone around me has the need to like stroke my hair or touch it, that may be weird but i cant be the only one that has this happen to XD and being at such a crucial part where i just really need to let them be on their own, i don't know what to do! Anyone else have this problem at such a important stage in their journey? Anybody know what I could do? hahaha It may soundridiculous but at school, or at home, or heck! even strangers, people like to touch my hair or stroke it. I cant stand it but i cant get mad haha. what do you guys do? and anyone have any good stories on the matter? alright go!

peace and love all <3

updated by @logan-arehart: 01/13/15 09:39:17PM

I just posted a couple horror stories about this in another thread but to summarize it all people will smell and touch your hair. Maybe not smell, but I got my dreads sniffed.

Honestly, you have to enhance your calm and lay out your healthy boundaries. If they have healthy boundaries themselves they will stop. I was like you at first and got pretty mad when people just touched my hair, but it happens so often you just learn to get used to it.

just explain that messi g with it will disrupt the proceess but come back in a few months and they can touch it all they want

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